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Courtesy of Dafna Steinberg
When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. When Tinder hands you pervert fuckboys, make art.
That's what Washington, DC-based artist Dafna Steinberg did. After a number of misogynistic encounters on Tinder, Steinberg turned the gross messages she received into collages that hold a lens up to romance and the art of dating.
Her series, "I'm Willing to Lie About How We Met," was recently featured in a three-artist exhibit in DC called #thisiswhyimsingle.
"I started using Tinder about two years ago, and I kept getting all these messages that were super inappropriate," Steinberg told Revelist in an email.
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Courtesy of Dafna Steinberg
"Being the kind of snarky person that I am, I also started responding to them."
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Courtesy of Dafna Steinberg
"I started taking screen shots and posting them to my Instagram feed, which eventually led to me deciding to incorporate them in collages."
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"A reaction [to the exhibit] I seem to get a lot is one where people laugh hysterically and then tell me they feel kind of sad."
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"I think seeing all the pieces together can be a little overwhelming, because (and this is partly the point of the work) it shows how frequently this actually happens."
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"Men who see the work have reached out to me to apologize for the behavior of other men, or have found it difficult to believe that this happens so often."
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Courtesy of Dafna Steinberg
"I also get asked why men send me these messages, which I find problematic because that's assuming that I was instigating the conversations."
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Courtesy of Dafna Steinberg
"The majority of the messages I used were unsolicited initial messages. All I did was match with the person."
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Courtesy of Dafna Steinberg
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