The holidays are here, and body-shaming relatives are on their actual worst behavior. 

It's a special kind of hell that gets unleashed this time of year — and rude comments like these make you want to rain fire on everything. But keep calm and clap back politely.

1

*Eating dinner* "You should try and get a head start on your New Year's resolution."

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"No thanks. [Turns to someone else at the table] Aunt ______, I saw on Facebook that you went to Italy. How was it?" 

2

*Christmas shopping* "Should you buy those in a smaller size for when you lose weight?"

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"I deserve to wear this right now and I love how it looks on me."  
3

"Are you sure you want seconds?"

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*SILENTLY GRABS POTATOES, NEVER STOPS PUTTING THEM ON MY PLATE*
4

"Are you dating anyone? Don't worry, men will be all over you when you lose weight."

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"Do you want to talk about something that makes you uncomfortable now? Is that what we're doing here?"

5

*Brings thin date home* "That's YOUR boyfriend?"

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"You sound surprised. Do you want to explain that?" 

6

*Shows up in tight holiday dress* "Have you ever tried Spanx?"

"Nope. What kind of underwear are you wearing right now?" 

7

*Complains about co-worker getting promotion* "Was she skinnier than you?"

"Out of respect for her and me, I'm not going to answer that."
8

"Maybe you should skip dessert?"

"Why? Is it bad? Is something wrong with mom's pie???"
9

"You should have these veggies that I cooked specially for you."

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"Thank you! Put it right here on my plate, next to the mac and cheese." 
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Just remember! Anger is not the answer.

Some people can be enlightened or nudged into more polite behavior; others will never change. 

Either way, speak up for yourself and know that their comments are really about THEM and have nothing to do with you.